MADNESS AND SADNESS IN UPSTATE NEW YORK

Posted in Life ::: April 5, 2009 8:12 AM

 Anytime senseless, violent tragedy strikes in America, no matter where it is, it hits home.  You wonder how something like that could happen, what caused it and pray that it doesn't come to your town.  The shooting this past week in Binghamton, New York hit even closer.  Binghamton is a very similar place to the Rome/Utica area - part of the Upstate "Appalachia" that former Governor Spitzer dubbed it before his fall from grace.  

When something like this happens, one wonders what could drive someone to madness of this magnitude - to enter an immigration facility, block the rear exit and murder thirteen people and then himself.  One imagines the horror of those inside - most of them refugees and immigrants there to learn English and other skills for being productive in this country - as the shots rang out and they realized they had no place to run to.  One wonders how the secretary Shirley DeLucia had the courage and presence of mind to fake being dead after being shot and then call 911 and stay on the phone with the authorities while the shooter was still in the building.  Still in critical condition, DeLucia is a hero.  One wonders all this and then tries to drive these horrors out of mind and move on.  

We shouldn't move on so quickly.  The shooter, Jiverly Wong, was a Vietnamese immigrant who had used this very immigration center himself, taking English classes.  He apparently had just recently lost his job at a Shop-Vac plant in Binghamton and believed people had been making fun of him for his poor English.  

These are scary and stressful times.  The national economy and job market are causing much pain.  The jobless rate is over double digits in some areas.  People are struggling.  The stressors are adding up.  Combine those stressors with other factors - some genetic perhaps, some learned - and there are more than likely a great many time bombs walking around among us.  Park Dietz, a forensic psychiatrist was quoted as saying "People who end up doing this particular thing have an accumulation of stressors in their lives and ultimately there is one that broke the camel's back.  Job loss is one of the big ones and those stressors are happening more often this year."

Contiguous to this is the growing tension in this country with regard to immigrants and refugees.  There are a great many who, as the economy gets worse and jobs become more scarce, are growing ever more resentful toward those who come here to make a better life for themselves.  Their treatment of these people is lacking in warmth, to say the least.  

I don't pretend to have answers.  But I do know that thought and contemplation of these issues should be given - that we should not be so quick to push this scene out of our minds and hope it doesn't come to our town.  And perhaps, if we encounter a situation, a person, who we see in pain, who we see struggling - maybe we try to help.  There are a great many resources out there and very often, someone in pain will simply not avail themselves on their own - they need help getting there.  And if we are not the person to provide that help, which we may very well not be, then bring in someone who is.  Yes, these are scary and stressful times.  And as much as ever before, people need to feel that they have support and love and that they are not alone.  That could very well be the difference between the bomb going off or being defused.  

Comments on this Entry

  1. Posted :: April 5th, 2009Beverly Choltco-Devlin

    Greg, Your blog posting is so timely and should give everyone pause. Having narrowly survived a similar rampage in the early 80s I can say with a certain degree of understanding and perspective that every single point you make is compelling and, in my mind, spot on. I was shot at by a deranged/angry husband of an employee (both immigrants to this country). Fortunately I ducked in time and played dead also. Four individuals within 10 feet of me, however, were either seriously injured or killed. Another friend was killed on a separate floor and several others wounded. That being said, I have come to terms slowly with the events of that day, but as you say…do not forget. I noticed that in the space of 13 hours, the lead story on the Binghamton tragedy moved from the front page of CNN to a minor footnote (in the wake of a continuing series of equally horrific events). I also, too, notice the increasing resentment of immigrants (both legal and illegal) who simply want to come to this country to take part in the benefits our democracy offers. Intolerance for both is rampant in internet emails that get forwarded ad nauseum. Many times these emails make gross generalizations about entire races, cultures or religious beliefs systems and attribute to such nameless immigrants false motives or actions. They also exhibit a degree of intolerance and self-righteousness that belies everything our constitution stands for. Every single person in this country save for Native Americans is here as a result of their ancestors coming to seek a better life at some point in time. A simple way to show compassion and thoughtfulness is to not forward the thinly-veiled hate mail that insidiously feeds the lack of tolerance shown to those who simply want a better life for their families. We are fortunate in upstate New York that we offer refuge to those seeking a better life. Also, as you suggest, we should be sensitive to those who are troubled and offer assistance to those in need. We should also not be afraid to let others who can provide help know. I wish to this day that I had trusted and acted upon my similar instincts 26 years ago. Though I have gone on with my life successly since that day, I am mindful that not having talked to someone in the weeks before that day is the true burden I bear. As you advise, mindfulness and action can truly help in such cases.

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